Hey, I’m Alissa
My path to this work didn't begin in a classroom. It began in my own body — in the slow unravelling of patterns I'd carried for years, and the gradual recognition that unresolved trauma had quietly kept me from my own pleasure, my own desire, my own aliveness.
In 2022, a complex pelvic diagnosis became an unexpected doorway. What began as a medical journey deepened into something far more personal — a reckoning with how I related to my body, my desire, and my capacity for pleasure.
Hey, I’m Alissa
My path to this work didn't begin in a classroom. It began in my own body — in the slow unravelling of patterns I'd carried for years, and the gradual recognition that unresolved trauma had quietly kept me from my own pleasure, my own desire, my own aliveness.
In 2022, a complex pelvic diagnosis became an unexpected doorway. What began as a medical journey deepened into something far more personal — a reckoning with how I related to my body, my desire, and my capacity for pleasure.
How I work & What to Expect
My work has led me through an ongoing exploration of eroticism, embodiment, and sexuality — territory that has been as confronting as it has been expansive. It's also what eventually brought me to the Institute of Somatic Sexology, where I trained under its founders, Deej and Uma, and found the framework to hold this work with both depth and care.
I became a somatic sex coach because I believe this exploration deserves a guide who has walked this path themselves — someone who knows the terrain not just intellectually, but in their body.
Your curiosity about sex, eroticism, and pleasure matters.
Somatic Sexology | IFS
I use three primary modalities — Somatic Sexology, IFS (Internal Family Systems), and nervous system regulation. Together, they create a framework for reconnecting with your body, releasing the beliefs that have limited your sexual and emotional growth, and expanding your capacity for pleasure, presence, and authentic connection.
I work primarily with women who feel disconnected, numb, or performative in their sexuality — and who are ready to find their way back to safety, aliveness, and themselves. Our sessions are collaborative and unhurried, moving at a pace that is always attuned to where you are.
Somatic Sexology + IFS
I use three primary modalities — Somatic Sexology, IFS (Internal Family Systems), and nervous system regulation. Together, they create a framework for reconnecting with your body, releasing the beliefs that have limited your sexual and emotional growth, and expanding your capacity for pleasure, presence, and authentic connection.
I work primarily with women who feel disconnected, numb, or performative in their sexuality — and who are ready to find their way back to safety, aliveness, and themselves. Our sessions are collaborative and unhurried, moving at a pace that is always attuned to where you are.